Life + Style of an Elite Matchmaker & Dating Coach

Start a Conversation with Your Child #TalktoMe

The Huffington Post launched a movement that encourages authentic conversations between you and your child. I had the honor of sitting down to be interviewed by my 12-year-old son. This interview was the most meaningful interview I have ever done. I encourage you to make your own #talktome conversation with your children. As we spark connections with those we love we can spread more love through the world. See the the original interview here.... read more

Create a Breakup Breakthrough

A breakup has the power to rock us to the core. We can either let it knock us down or we can choose to rise from it. Think of how amazing life would be if we decided to take heartbreak and make something beautiful out of it. Yes heartbreak can be transformed into something life changing and beautiful. Change can be painful but do you know what’s more painful? Staying somewhere that we can’t fully live to our highest purpose. Yes breakups hurt like hell but it hurts more when you stay somewhere you’re not respected or wanted. A breakup can ultimately wake us up to realize what we really deserve in a relationship. A breakup and a relationship does not define you. My wish is that every woman will see her great value and beauty. We are each created for a beautiful purpose beyond what we can see in the pain. Your worth is not in another person but within yourself. It’s there girlfriend. Let’s make a change and create breakup breakthroughs. Go grab your power, take it back and rock out your single life. Ways to rock your singleness & create a breakup breakthrough 1. Find your tribe. I’m not talking about finding casual acquaintances. Being around the wrong people can be the loneliest place in the world. Make a conscious choice to surround yourself with the right people. I’m talking about finding a group of people that are badass, soulful, and uplifting women. Begin to work on becoming that type of woman. As you do the universe will align to bring you other people that will... read more

Confessions of a Matchmaker

I often get asked how I became a matchmaker. It wasn’t something that I ever aspired to be as a child. I didn’t even know you could become a professional matchmaker until a few years ago. I don’t have one of those stories of I always knew I wanted to fix people up and play cupid. I did always believe in true love and I often gave people too many chances in relationships. I was not born an expert on love and relationships. Actually I had quite the opposite. My parents divorced when I was 8 years old and I never really knew what true love was. I dreamed of it and held on to the hope that prince charming would sweep me off my feet and we would live happily ever after. However, after my relationships and my marriage didn’t last I knew there had to be more to love. So I went on a search to find the missing pieces in my life. After my divorce, I went on a search to understand the dating world, relationships, and the true meaning of love. I studied different avenues of dating, studied intimate and interpersonal communication at my university and began to study others in the dating industry. I started my first company, The Dating Stylist, to help singles makeover their online profiles and create a positive self image about themselves. By the way this company was born from finding my ex-husband on a dating site while we were married! The guys on there were so creepy! I knew someone could help them create better profiles. I’m sure all... read more

Ways You Might Miss a Soul Connection

Life is a beautiful journey. A journey to be embraced, to experience deeply and to love wholeheartedly. I’m convinced people miss soul connections by being close-minded to the world. When we stay in our own little closed-off bubble to the rest of the world we miss out on the beauty that was designed just for us to experience. We miss beautiful experiences, places and people. I am always awestruck by the people I get to connect with across the world. The lifestyles, the accents, the people fascinate me. What if we looked at love and soul connections with a more open mind and heart? Would we love more? Would we find love faster and fall deeper? Would we experience breathtaking passion more than heartbreak? I’m some how convinced we would. So let’s focus on living with vulnerability and wholeheartedness. Approach each potential connection with an open mind of what the connection could bring into your life. Don’t dare miss your next soul connection. Five ways you might miss a soul connection: 1. You limit your demographic connection. The world is full of possibilities and beautiful connections. If we limit our connections to our own town or city then we are missing out on so many beautifully designed people. People who could spark something in our soul that we have never experienced before. People who could bring us new experiences. Never limit connection by demographics. I have talked to the most amazing people across the world. They broaden my world and make me crave new experiences. The world has so much to teach us, it would be a shame to... read more

Create an Irresistible Life You Love

Are you ready to join the biggest love revolution ever? Are you struggling to create a life full of love and passion? Is your love life non-existent? Are you ready to make positive life giving changes in your life to create a life you love? Surround yourself with love and positive healthy relationships? Well you are in the right place at the right time! I’m going to give you my top 14 dating tips to create an irresistible life you love! Commit to these daily changes in you will see a difference in your relationships with others and yourself. LOVE TIP #1 Find and show your passion! Passion is a strong excitement or enthusiasm for something. We all need passion about something! Find your passion in something other than another person. We often find passion in another person before finding an outside passion that fulfills us. When the passionate relationship ends we often fill empty and lonely. This is why it is vital to find passion in something outside of another person. What do you LOVE to do in your spare time? Are you passionate about creating your own business, yoga, helping others? Whatever sparks your soul and creates excitement is passion. Find this, experiment with it and see where your passion leads you. Without a passionate life outside of a relationship it is hard to create a passionate life full of love. LOVE TIP #2 Inner wellness is key to embrace your inner beauty and practice healthy emotions. When inner wellness is practiced it radiates on the outside. There is nothing more beautiful than a beautiful soul. Inner... read more

Intentional Living: What Sparks Your Soul?

Do you ever evaluate your life and wonder if you are living life to the fullest? Most days I feel like there are so many more places to see and so much more to experience. If I live stagnant in the same place without the intention to move forward I may miss out on life’s beauty. There are so many things to soak in, to fill my soul and to live life fully. I’m convinced we need to live life with intention or we will miss the daily beauty that surrounds us. What does living intentionally mean? And most important how do we do it? For me I am still learning how to take it all in but I do know a few steps that are helping me get there. 7 Steps to Living Intentionally 1. Ask yourself, “What sparks my soul? What makes me feel alive and happy?” From that question make decisions and chose how you will live. This is living intentionally. Do the things that make your soul smile. What makes your heart sing and your soul shine? Do those things! Simple as that. Live everyday doing something you love. 2. Be vulnerable. Are you holding back feelings and emotions that are trapped inside you? Do you wish to tell someone how you feel about them? Or maybe you want to say I’m sorry and offer forgiveness to another. Whatever it is open your heart and live vulnerable. Your soul, your heart is beautiful. It’s so scary to live with vulnerability but I have come to believe it is necessary. Necessary for us to feel raw... read more